hi
I say long ago that Ants needs a bether gui
and remove the irc from ants.
This big tabs method is realy not user friendly.
I think gwren has no time to redesign the gui.
This is perfectly right, redesigning the gui is VERY time consuming

Instead... for what concerns the security

If ants works correctly the number of hops to reach a destination should be MINIMIZED
if you can reach your destination through ONE hop (the destination is your neighbour)
this is the best possible case isn't it?
Note that this is not a threat for you or for your neighbour.
Your neighbour may be a guy that is just proxing data or may be the recipient... you cannot
know... For what concerns the speed... well the argument "that guy is receiving data too quickly"
again cannot be enforced

in fact:
1) Many people have speedy connections...
2) Ants is pipelining data (which makes the connection speedy even if you are routing through other nodes)
3) in a nat reasonably large your data will be mixed with others' data therefore that guy will never receive data too quickly don't worry

4) Finally the fact that you are "guessing" that the guy near you is the source of the data doesn't mean you can PROVE that he is the source. Formally you cannot prove this unless you are sure that the guy is connected ONLY to a set of zombies you created, which is by definition impossible, so I perfectly accept that your friend is guessing all your share. But try to ask him to PROVE that those files are yours! In Emule this is trivial... he will give you the result of his queries with (filename,IP), in Ants I believe it will be a bit more tricky isn't it

bye!